Someone earlier today that liked some things on my store facebook page had her relationship status as “widowed”. How bizarre, I thought to myself, (it hasn’t been very long and so I hadn’t even thought about it as something I may now have to describe myself as; even though it is a word that I included, albeit with an “ish”, in the subtext of the this blog title!) I still feel I am very much in communication with Jean-Pierre, still very much married, and in conversation with him I asked, “won’t you always be my husband? won’t we always be married? can’t I just change my relationship status to ‘it’s complicated’?” Funny, I didn’t hear his answer yet, though I clearly heard him calling me names when I forgot that I had left a screwdriver on top of a very tall ladder at the store today (working on his ofrenda, of course) and tried moving it. I came one inch from almost losing an eye and it was a nasty spot of bother, indeed.